Category: Self


  • Theme:

    Instinct Over Logic

    1–2 minutes

    Cormac McCarthy’s quote, “The unconscious is a machine for operating an animal,” reveals our primal core. We’re not just logical nodes or computers; heuristics and instinct drive us.

    Only half of our brain (left) leans logical; coincidentally, that’s the half that deceives. Clarity can arrive from embracing our animalistic unconscious, letting our holistic, non-linguistic drives (left brain, bodily) arise.


  • Theme:

    The Web of Influence

    1–2 minutes

    Linear cause-and-effect thinking—pinning future strife on past grievances—oversimplifies reality. Influences weave forward and backward, social and personal; a dynamic interplay shaping existence.

    Our need for control/stability drives reductive rationalizations, but reality resists such simplicity, demanding holistic understanding amidst chaos, not merely guided by logic, faith, or “gut feel” but a blended amalgam of animalistic intuition and rational subservience.


  • Theme:

    Reclaiming Self-Respect

    1–2 minutes

    Self-respect is reclaiming your essence by rejecting others’ expectations.

    It’s breaking free from their domestication to forge your own path, dismissing conformity as socially determined chains.

    Yet self-respect can also come from embracing the responsibility laid upon you and realizing that your “self” is a blend of society and personal essence to be navigated gracefully rather than rejected outright.


  • Theme:

    The Apostate’s Revenge

    1–2 minutes

    Apostates don’t truly convert; they redirect energy into negating their old faith. New beliefs merely frame their battle for revenge.

    Their life becomes a quest to oppose, not to embrace, (rebelling, not abandoning), leaving them trapped in the shadow of what they reject.


  • Theme:

    The Cost of Clarity

    1–2 minutes

    Clear-sighted intelligence cuts through rituals and platitudes, exposing truth. Yet, it isolates, alienating you from friends, society, and love.

    Seeing too clearly is a burden.

    Yet, the path back to friends, society, and love is not to blind yourself, but to push through the initial discord and alienation to rediscover a deeper perspective.


  • Theme:

    self-becoming vs historical contingency

    1–2 minutes

    Nietzsche and Heidegger converge in their view of the “self” as a non-essential, historically situated process that demands active engagement with a world lacking absolute foundations.

    Nietzsche calls for creative self-overcoming, Heidegger for authentic disclosure of Being, but both reject a static self in favor of agency and responsibility.

    Meanwhile, reading through Richard Rorty’s pragmatist lens, while insightful in highlighting contingency, flattens their philosophies by reducing the “self” to a linguistic artifact, a relativistic, interchangeable model, which ignores Nietzsche’s vitalism and Heidegger’s ontological depth.

    This reduction obscures the bold reimagining of the self as a dynamic, world-shaping force and reduces it to a mere redescription of terms.


  • Theme:

    The Psychopath’s Scripted Weakness

    1–2 minutes

    Psychopaths wield power in society, but their lack of empathy and imagination betrays them.

    Relying on scripts, they mimic norms perfectly—somber at funerals, flawless at Christmas. Yet, they’re blind to others’ fakery. Exaggerate stereotypes around them, and they won’t notice.

    This predictability is their Achilles’ heel. Use it wisely.

    (idea from Walter Kirn)


  • Theme:

    Celebration of Life or Denial of Grief?

    1–2 minutes

    Modern society shuns true grief, replacing funerals with “celebrations of life.” Yet, we trivialize daily struggles, labeling workplace meetings as “traumatic” or “soul-crushing.”

    This inversion of proportion distorts propriety: We serve cake when we should mourn and amplify minor anxieties while paid to participate. We have flipped our responses: We party when we should cry and whine when we are celebrated.

    Moreover, this habit of denying tragedy desensitizes us to authentic emotions, leaving us ill-equipped for genuine loss, confused and further traumatized by the repackaging of pain as something to be partied away. We somehow conquer grief with feigned positivity, applying one more burden atop our struggle.

    A more in-line perspective (simple, straightforward, direct, unmasked) could restore balance but requires reclaiming space for grief and denying the exaggeration of everyday discomforts.


  • Theme:

    The Mercy of Ending Suffering

    1–2 minutes

    The hardest act is putting something—or someone—out of its misery. Whether it’s a failing project, a toxic relationship, or a dying pet, the decision to end suffering demands courage and clarity.

    Hesitation prolongs pain, yet action feels like betrayal.

    This paradox tests our resolve: do we prioritize comfort or compassion?

    The insight lies in recognizing that true mercy sometimes requires decisive, painful choices. Avoiding the act out of fear or guilt only deepens the wound. To choose is to accept responsibility for alleviating suffering, even when it breaks your heart.


  • Theme:

    wired for nostalgia

    1–2 minutes

    Though humans are wired for negativity, we cloak it in nostalgia.

    As change accelerates, we misattribute personal discomfort to societal decline rather than our own waning/declining adaptability. Doubling down on our comfortable specialization narrows our scope, making the past (when we felt competent) seem rosier than the present, where relevance feels eroded.

    As Steven Pinker noted, this cognitive bias fuels the illusion of cultural decay. Yet, the world may not be worsening—we may simply be resisting its new rhythms, confusing personal obsolescence with universal collapse.