To change: Contradictory action over reaction
We have infinite resources (capability) for change. Every moment provides an instance in which we can react contradictory to our … More lint
Overindexed identity vs goo
Everyone has some facet in which they are over indexed for identity.
"I may not drink, but I run marathons" … More lint
Give up on changing yourself: that’s impossible. Instead, get incrementally better at spotting your own patterns and tightening the solution … More lint
The real me is superior to this situation.
If only the actual, authentic self were revealed or unleashed, success would … More lint
your stories of fulfillment
Who you are is strengthened when you unearth and convey the times you were deeply fulfilled.
Don’t spend your valuable … More lint
honor through absurdity
For dignity we pursue honor, love, or power. These often take the form of conquest, simultaneous desires, and discipline.
The … More lint
Trivial repetition as antidote
Much of our life is trivial, banal, and absurd. To give it meaning, we focus on something particular and drive … More lint
choosing replaces doing
In our society, we don’t “do” things in a classical sense of taking action to “make something.”
We “choose” things … More lint