To become stable alone you first need community
To grow into the ideal state of autonomy (the robust individual), you must first participate in an ecology of growth …
attention
The friction keeps you on track
Ease allows indulgence. In journaling it is dictating, in relationships it is nodding, and in creation it is formulaic emulation. …
the price of love
The price of "love" is to have your dysfunction soothed, which is temporary at best. The delusion is to think …
Negative effort
Choosing the passive role, remaining open to life’s flows, or the active position, imprinting your will upon situations, are not …
Your attention is your state
Where your attention goes is your state of being. Depression, anger, and resentment are good at drawing and maintaining attention, …
Bids for Attention
Relationships bid for attention. A request demands a reaction: either share or dismiss. Some people become vampiric, needing you to …
Pay Attention to Avoid Regret
Not paying attention means you have focused internally, retreating from the world. Living in your head means you miss the …