Sabotaging others is self-sabotage
Self-sabotage gets attention. Passive-aggressive sabotage is the same thing. You do not let someone’s life go smoothly: you make yourself into a bump or barricade …
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The goal of suffering
Look at me suffer. I don’t want this. I did it to myself for you. What is my goal? To repeatedly do something, even though …
Distraction robs you of yourself
If your attention is captured, you cannot choose what to focus on. Without focus, without awareness, you cannot prioritize. Others control you, blown about by …
The reward is reality
"Attention is rewarded by a knowledge of reality." To be led away from yourself towards some alien thing is to encounter something independent of your …