Malicious vs Incompetent
"The mistake was not malicious, just incompetent." This implies non-malicious intent, which is forgivable. Yet, inaction to become competent is malicious, because the effects of …
forgiveness
The ease of betrayal
Doing the "right thing" isn’t hard so much as doing the "wrong thing" is easy."Easy" pays off quicker, is more expedient, and avoids those difficult …
The paradox of self-compassion
The paradox of self-compassion is that it is not selfish: once you fully face your flaws and accept you are merely human, you more easily …
Winging it
You can wing it and claim success, because you forgave yourself in advance. This is how we start most things, but it is not your …