Tag: change
feelings follow behavior
If you act depressed and tell yourself you’re depressed, you can manifest depression. To be happy and content, do the…
toxicity as survival
We assume people are toxic, yet perhaps the creation of toxicity is the environment: toxicity is a reactive … More…
The new must come slowly
We constantly seek novelty, but we hate the new. We will claim to want new things, but only if they…
Harboring magnanimity
When the storm (trauma) has passed, you can move on: you can forgive -and stay wary of another storm- but…
Recognition vs responsibility
We are always complicit, but owning our part is vital. Simplistically, there are two paths: Recognition of complicity and a…
naivety as virtue
Our naivety can be a virtue. When wisdom accepts brutality and evil out of an overly weary and worldly common…
To change: Contradictory action over reaction
We have infinite resources (capability) for change. Every moment provides an instance in which we can react contradictory to our…
improbable identity
There is another probable version of you that you could choose. This is the other you, the potential you. You…
Top down change
A position of power is the only way to manifest change. And the most power is at the top of…
Bottom up change
Change is commonly driven from below. The top requires stability for profit and maintenance, which is a form of power.……