Tag: change

  • feelings follow behavior

    If you act depressed and tell yourself you’re depressed, you can manifest depression. To be happy and content, do the…

  • toxicity as survival

    We assume people are toxic, yet perhaps the creation of toxicity is the environment: toxicity is a reactive … More…

  • The new must come slowly

    We constantly seek novelty, but we hate the new. We will claim to want new things, but only if they…

  • Harboring magnanimity

    When the storm (trauma) has passed, you can move on: you can forgive -and stay wary of another storm- but…

  • Recognition vs responsibility

    We are always complicit, but owning our part is vital. Simplistically, there are two paths: Recognition of complicity and a…

  • naivety as virtue

    Our naivety can be a virtue. When wisdom accepts brutality and evil out of an overly weary and worldly common…

  • To change: Contradictory action over reaction

    We have infinite resources (capability) for change. Every moment provides an instance in which we can react contradictory to our…

  • improbable identity

    There is another probable version of you that you could choose. This is the other you, the potential you. You…

  • Top down change

    A position of power is the only way to manifest change. And the most power is at the top of…

  • Bottom up change

    Change is commonly driven from below. The top requires stability for profit and maintenance, which is a form of power.……