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    hypocrisy: gangster

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    Hypocrisy is not merely professing one thing and doing another; it requires belief in the very stability of what one undermines. This paradox assumes a conscious recognition of virtue, selectively ignored but offset by actions that reassert a fractured self-image.

    Consider the archetype of the Mafia Don—a criminal bound by convictions to family, faith, or loyalty. He avoids divorce yet indulges in infidelity, preserving marriage as a symbol of high ethical permanence. Similarly, the mob sustains the pretense of tribal sanctity while exploiting or killing its members. Loyalty is theatrically upheld to avert anarchy, reinforced by calculated gestures of generosity.

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    Won’t get fooled again

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    To not be fooled is not to live.

    Every time we interact, we risk. Every risk presupposes a modicum of trust and faith.

    Some people are wounded too badly to engage anymore, while others immediately jump back into the fray. Some, after more circumspection lick their wounds and learn, returning more cautious, more calculated.

    More interesting are those who are fooled, made fools of, and yet return more wise and wild: wiley.

    Permission to be fooled again granted, but be cautious what will return.

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    Hypocrisy Over Power

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    Reading Foucault and Nietzsche convinces us that power relations and the “will to power” underlie all dynamics and institutions.

    However, this revelation reduces everything to a single drive of importance, ignoring the traditional binary of secular/profane versus holy/sacred.

    The acceptance of “power” instead of “sacred/profane” collapses the binary; it flattens humans back into utilitarian monsters, entirely secular.

    More interestingly, to accept that there is an unattainable realm of ideals and hold them sacred creates a universal hypocrisy: we cannot achieve perfection and must remain humble and merciful given our failure to achieve the unattainable perfection. Yet, acceptance is not condoning.

    Instead of limiting hypocrisy through attempting sacred alignment “power” sees hypocritical behavior as necessary and useful, valid as a stratagem. This denies justice and civility to reinstate “might is right.”

    In this sense, power as priit macy only reverts humanity back to animality.

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    lies vs bullshit

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    Lying is knowing the truth while intentionally deceiving. Bullshitting is deceptive as well, yet is not so deliberately against truth. Bullshit casually bypasses truth altogether to achieve an effect.

    Lying, perversely, subverts the truth: you must know the truth to lie. Bullshitters don’t care. Bullshit only concerns itself with achievement, making it more dangerous as it erodes the social foundation of truth-seeking and trust bias.

    from Harry Frankfurt, “On Bullshit”

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    When truth is suspect

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    We claim to want the complete unvarnished truth, yet when something traumatic happens, if someone reports it too clearly and concisely—like a good informational report—they become suspect because of that very clarity. Their truth becomes suspicious because of its fidelity.

    Instead, inconsistency (lack of fidelity) fits perfectly with human nature. Stories become lies when they’re over-embellished, or you can spot the lie by the absurd level of detail—they’re trying too hard to convince, no longer behaving naturally.

    As Lacan said, “truth has the structure of a fiction.”

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    Defending a mystery

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    You don’t know yourself, so what is your ego defending?

    Freedom from anxiety lies in accepting the fluidity of identity and being humbly surprised by our drives. Rigidly defending and identifying with a shifting mystery, having loyalty to a fickle lord, may be admirable in a Don Quixote sense, but it is also insane.

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    The instinct to lie

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    If information is power, it’s no surprise we lie. We instinctively hold something back to retain leverage, a survival mechanism to protect our most vital resources.

    To be open and trusting is to invite predation. Don’t blame people for lying—this cautious instinct can be protective in hostile environments.

    The real conflict lies in balancing belief in others with self-preservation. While communal trust fosters security, it also becomes prey to bad actors, eventually dissolving that trust and leaving only frightened survivalists in its wake.

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    Politics today: control

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    "There are only two vital forces in American politics today: those who wish to control everything, and those who wish not to be controlled." ~ Martin Gurri

    To extend: There are only two options today: a lying state working hard at the appearance of control, and an obviously lying state proudly out of control.

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    Personal Overcorrection: Grasping at Flawed Solutions

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    When trying to make up for mistakes, we become vulnerable to new forms of manipulation. In looking for immediate solutions, we tend to choose flawed solutions that are easy to hand.

    To releive tension between the faulty self and the our cultivated self-image we attempt to correct our error quickly, or if impossible to correct we mus tflee the old self and remake our self-image in a way that accounts for our past errors.

    For example, recognizing our past anger or controlling behavior can make us overcompensate by becoming too lenient and allowing others to take advantage of us, declaring we deserve it or it is karma. Alternately, we may become too rigid (and brittle) in an attempt to regain control, isolating ourselves from that frivolous self. These repressions can be a means to punish the self, even creating opportunities for abuse from others, to attone for previous mistakes.

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    Transcending Material Goals for Sublime, Unattainable Fulfillment

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    When pursuing a goal, motivation falters as you’re haunted by dark fantasies of failure. These fears obscure the path, and success becomes elusive: you are nearly there, but cannot see it. You need a guiding light beyond your objective.

    To overcome your doubt and dissuaded fixation, shift focus from tangible objectives to abstract, immaterial goals—commodities that transcend physical limits.

    Unlike material achievable goals, which deteriorate and shift due to their finite nature, the commodity can never be fully attained. It is eternal and avoids capture. This echoes the logic of capitalism, where commodities are fetishized into the sublime, approximate to God, and the pursuit itself becomes divine.

    This animating motivation stems from a base, subjective desire, which can now be elevated to transcend the original, objective need. In so doing it offers a long-term stable, albeit unattainable, path toward self-fulfillment.

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