Tag: ego
Splitting: refusing the confusion
The psychological term "splitting" occurs when you can only see somebody as "all good" or "all bad."It is a refusal … More lint
Indispensable you
You are replaceable, but quality diminishes.
Defensive much?
Why would you ever defend yourself? To explain enriches a narrative, both revealing and contextualizing, but when justifying one assumes … More lint
The punch drunk ego
You have to let go.
When we make a mistake or are insulted, we hang onto it, impairing our behavior. … More lintThe Man You Are vs. The Man You Want To Be
How do you balance strength and confidence with kindness and empathy? To be sensitive and rational tends towards acquiescent compliance: … More lint
Coming to your senses
Coming to your senses is literally waking up from thought.
To come back into your physicality is to escape your … More lintDon’t-ignore-me Tantrum
Sometimes we push back against things simply to push, to flex and feel real. Our internal wiring (ego) acts out, … More lint