Everyone has some facet in which they are over indexed for identity.
"I may not drink, but I run marathons" or "I may be soft around the middle, but I’m hard-core for (name your salvation)."
this point of fixation (fixity) becomes our flag and crutch. while we prefer the single utility machine, taken to a robotic, uncompromising extreme, there are those looking for the mutable and mushy, the gelatinous, from which fluid change is possible, and no singular point can be determined or taken.