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    empathy conflated with approval

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    In contemporary society, there’s a noticeable trend where people advocate passionately for various causes (and themselves), yet genuine empathy seems to have become entangled with the expectation of unquestioned approval: if you feel my pain or joy, you must approve.

    This manifests as the belief that they’re uncaring or antagonistic if someone doesn’t share your concerns.

    This is a classic manipulative splitting or binary polarization, which doesn’t allow the empathetic party to have their own point of view.

    The alternative is to offer sympathy and understanding without necessitating complete alignment (i.e., being able to dip in and out of empathy). This perspective involves acknowledging and respecting differing viewpoints while steadfastly upholding personal principles (boundaries). It embraces the capacity to care for others without necessarily endorsing every belief or action.

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    Trapped into being hysterical or bureaucratic

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    To stage the need for pathology is to be hysteric.

    The hysteric realizes the necessity for a manic release of the self: an energetic caring arriving as an amped self. This energetic, spastic hyper-concern actively deconstructs the normalized self and traditions, revealing an alternate self and new lines of flight.

    The premise is that spastic hysteria is pathology.

    Yet, the bureaucratic management that surrounds us stages (and maintains) a state of paranoia necessary for control. In this bureaucratic state of paranoic control, forcing normalization, inclrasingly any deviance is labeled pathological.

    Both of these modes extend themselves simultaneously creating a schizophrenic world: the less we can be controlled the more pathological we appear, and yet to be completely controlled is to repress the self unto death.

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    Swimming in Paradigms

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    We understand the world through epic themes that encapsulate us: epistemes, ideologies, and paradigms are the water in which we swim.

    Most of us are only vaguely aware of the contradictions and motivations that mobilize us, but we are the support system that feeds and maintains the framework. The better we grasp its trajectory, the more efficiently we can empower it through enhancing its programatization or destroying it by posing alternatives.

    Counterintuitively, the systems we serve tend to create impersonal claims for their self-perpetuation instead of our service. We gladly serve, abide, and are contentedly entrapped, furthering our servitude, which provides us a sense of directed agency, empowerment, or survival as it simultaneously endangers us.

    Yet, I doubt it can be avoided: to evade capture by these frameworks would require a complete non-engagement, but to move in the world requires framing. Escaping one of Plato’s caves only creates another, and jumping from one of Magritte’s painted canvases lands you in another.

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    Harmonizing Presence and Purpose

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    Acute awareness in the present allows appreciation, while achievement requires purpose-driven action.

    These are not wholly incompatible, yet the search for meaning employs a mental state (intellectual focus) fundamentally at odds with the enjoyment of inherent beauty (open relaxation).

    The interplay can create harmony, where deliberate purpose propels us into meaningful action, during which existential angst recedes, leaving us free to feel deeply.

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    the paradox of self-loss in flow

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    Identity begins to dissolve when in deep engagement with a task, marked by a diminished awareness of the ego’s voice (the small self).

    This detachment from self-conscious thoughts and existential contemplations simplifies the engaged task at hand. Absent personal ruminations, no conundrum exists to unravel; the work becomes the focal point of resolution. This immersion births tranquility through self-loss.

    More intriguingly, task mastery heightens as one relinquishes control. In this “flow state,” guidance becomes redundant; the process itself becomes the mentor.

    Ironically, the task commands an absent self, directing a “you” that has transcended self-identification.

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    Corporate Zealotry: Fleeting Bonds

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    I overheard two men bitching about work as a means to bond. They both aggrandize their superiority in navigating and adhering to policies, portraying themselves as paragons of corporate responsibility, zealots that sacrifice to make up for the flaws in the system.

    This conversation, seemingly typical or mundane, underscores a deeper societal tendency: bonding through competitive allegiance to corporate structures. Such alliances, intense and short-lived, are rooted in bureaucratic fervor and often negate fundamental human values.

    Paradoxically, to create the human bond we are missing within corporate alignment, we announce and parade our commitment to inhumanity as a worthy attribute.

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    The paradox of Equality and Difference

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    The Woke and DEI movements theoretically advocate for ‘equality through promoting difference.’ This seems paradoxical: in a system where each element is unique, these differences produce equivalence (if every part is unique/different, they are all equally valuable).

    However, this equivalence collapses under a uniform metric or standard, like productive efficiency or race.

    The consideration between equality and difference is a ‘coincidence of opposites,’ a paradox that indicates interdependence and mutual reliability. This means there is no inherent polarity or antagonism, so endorsing one over the other or both simultaneously produces contradictory relevance or dissonance.

    Intriguingly, as a system strives toward its ideal, it inadvertently intensifies its opposite: simultaneously attempting equality and diversity guarantees the opposite of difference and uniformity.

    This ongoing struggle fuels polarization but to no apparent end: the dichotomies are inherent. Thus, their total absence cannot be manifested, and by claiming alternate poles simultaneously, we merely flip contradictions as the goal is approached.

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    Burning itself: Excess materialism or idealism

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    Observing reactions against our materialistic culture, with its perceived absence of values and overemphasis on self-centeredness, prompts a yearning for spirituality and transcendence.

    Ironically, the idealist aspirations often underpin myths that fuel conflict, powered by the machines and wealth of the materialists.

    It seems that excess must burn itself: too much idealism or materialism provokes its use, which tends towards its own destruction.

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    Constructive / Destructive Paradox

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    For all of our cleverness and rationality, our ability to build tools, create marvels, and harness the energy of Atoms, we also fall prey to cults and wish death upon ourselves to serve in-group demands.

    Despite all of our capabilities and rationality, we can be convinced to suicide ourselves.

    Our creative, constructive aspect is more than equaled by our delusional, destructive self. This begs the corollary question of these traits: are they inherently interdependent?

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    Paradox: moral transgression

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    A confounding problem for progressive politics is the belief in transgression to move beyond traditional shackles.

    Transgression is anti-moral, in that morality is established by conservative mores, and yet the “equality” progressives seek is essentially moral, and must not be transgressed.

    As usual, at extremes, the deal struck to release us subverts its terms into it’s Achilles heal: to achieve morality we must transgress morality.

    That is, to escape hierarchical domination and become free, we atomize people and norms beyond the commonality that can gauge equality.

    (Inspired by Cristopher Lasch)