The double humble

There must be a word for when you lie and exaggerate in a humble fashion to make others feel better about being around you. It is placatory to a level of derangement.
It isn’t a humble brag but a "double humble" of negative denigration; the politeness cancels out politeness and shifts into pathos.

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