Self-talk failure
I find that by telling myself what “not to do” I become focused on that behavior. “Don’t do that thing” turns into doing that exact …
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Losing yourself in the community
There is a fine line between self-acceptance and communal spirit.Self-acceptance means keeping your responsibilities separate from others to be genuinely who and what you are. …
Find yourself by subtraction
To know who you are, quit chasing and adding. Try restricting your activities. Your increase in focus will be more revealing. By quitting most things, …
Distraction robs you of yourself
If your attention is captured, you cannot choose what to focus on. Without focus, without awareness, you cannot prioritize. Others control you, blown about by …
Honor is not character
Honor and glory are externally gifted. Contextual bestowed tokens, that can be stripped as quickly as given. Character and virtue are internal. The complication is …
Finding yourself through others
If you are seeking the authentic you, the unadulterated authenticity of the unique self, it would only be revealed when you are by yourself, without …
No Virtue in Consistency
Self Creation: the path of fixation leads to death, the path of fluidity leads to life. There is no virtue in consistency if it prevents …