You create your state
Things affect you because you decide to care: you made it about you. Most of your cares are small and …
Someone who loves you disrupts you into your best self
Someone who loves you can protect you from your self. They encourage you into happiness, they cajole and redirect you …
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Productivity can displace the goal
Productivity is necessary, but don’t forget why you are being productive. Why are you trying so hard? To live well? …
To be more productive, stop
Always stop in the middle of a project and go for a walk, don’t power through and reward yourself when …
Protect yourself from yourself
Don’t wear yourself out. Seriously. It just isn’t worth it to gain praise or even self-affirmation. Work hard, but know …
Writing is learning
Writing well means you learn from the writing. Which is why it takes so long, is so taxing, and you …
Learning takes play
Learning something new seems to require time, time to play and make mistakes, which is called experimentation and testing.