holding on is impossible

In a metaphysical sense, all experiences arise and depart, becoming ephemeral. The attempt to hold on to a state requires the effort to re-create that state, which is a futile effort.

More importantly, attempting to hold onto a state, be it glee or rage, blocks you from recognizing the possibility of embracing the current state.

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