Fickleness of Recognition

If you want attention from a certain audience, put energy into that space. If you want freedom from catering to other people’s acceptance maintain your independence.

The trade-off is for recognition, which is how we tend to measure success, but external validation is a fraught and fickle path.

Today they love you, tomorrow they don’t.

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