Do not avoid stress, run towards it.

We spend much of our lives avoiding pain or distress, assuming happiness will arrive when anxiety has dissipated.

Yet, joy and bliss are intense feelings grown from overcoming challenges and fulfilling psychological goals.

Running away from stress is self-defeating: neither solving the problem nor producing an ecstatic state of owning a problem and overcoming it.

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