Advice is pointless, perspective misses the point

When you give advice, don’t forget that the person you are talking to already knows the right thing to do.

They may change their outlook if you offer them a new perspective, but that misses the point: any meaningful struggle is beyond right/wrong and stems from a core contradiction of being human.

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